To Get A Date

  To get a date is not too complicated, but rather a balance of how you carry yourself and who you choose to date. This a universal law that applies to both men and women. If you are having problems with finding a date you should ask yourself some questions.

Am I attractive?

  This is a necessary evil that I have to get into. I don't mean to offend ANYBODY but the world that we live in today is biased. Bottom line. Attractive people will find that getting a date is not the problem. Their problem when it comes to dating is dating the RIGHT person. Attractive people have people flirting, and hitting on them all the time. So if these caliber of people find themselves in bad relationship after bad relationship it's more than likely that they keep choosing the wrong people. For the not so attractive person those people have to work a little harder. Your attitude can make you unattractive or it can make you extra attractive. I have seen some people that are physically beautiful, but their attitude turned them into an ugly person in my mind eye. And at the same time I have ran across people who were ugly to me until I got to know their personality and then all of a sudden I start to see the beauty in them that I would not have seen had I not took the time to get to know them.

What kind of person are you?

  In order to get a date with the right person you must ask yourself this question. If you don't know the answer just ask some of the people who you have known for a long time. By asking other people what they think of you you can get an outside perspective of who you are and what you are about. Some of us have the talent to give great evaluations of ourselves, but still it is best to get second opinions just to confirm your own observations. Sometimes when tend to not see what other people pick up on. The answer to this question is very important because of a thing called the law of attraction. This universal law affects everything in the universe. If you are always in a negaitive state of mind you can expect for MOST of you memorable life experiences to be negative. Even if you are talented enough fool everyone around you there is no escaping the energy that you attract to. This also applies to a positive state of mind. The law of attraction is something that was created along with the universe. So in order to get a date with that special someone you must think and act like that person to whom you want to marry.